Add Exim interop tests; switch client TLS to tls.zig
The VM test now also runs the zsmtp client against Exim (ports
2625/2626) over plaintext, STARTTLS, and implicit TLS, with taint-safe
appendfile delivery checked in /var/spool/exim-mail.
Exim exposed a standard-library TLS bug: std.crypto.tls.Client only
advances its record-decryption state upon receiving the TLS 1.3
middlebox-compatibility ChangeCipherSpec record, which is optional and
disabled by Exim's OpenSSL setup, so the handshake died with
TlsUnexpectedMessage. The client-side Tls wrapper now uses ianic/tls.zig
(already used server-side) instead: init is in-place (the connection
holds interior pointers), and the flush-through workaround is gone since
tls.zig flushes each record to the stream.
A sendmail interop test was built and passing but removed again since
nixpkgs does not package the sendmail MTA.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_012HBHFhoTYa8TU9GLwobfbx